A Gentle Reminder

Posted by uphilldowndale on Tuesday Jan 26, 2010
Under country life, guest blogger, musings

I’ve never really understood why people go fishing, other than for food that is. I could never see the attraction. That was until I stumbled across this gentleman one December morning. I’d been rushing around only to find my services  weren’t  actually required. Suddenly I had a few hours in the day that were mine, so  on the way home I took a detour and stopped by at the reservoir to see how things were looking in the morning light. It was cold and the gentleman was far more suitable dressed for the weather than I was, but the time I spent chatting to him has since made me realise, it’s not how, or why, you get your fix peace and tranquillity, all that matters is that you do. Of course I’m not the first to make such an observation, just that it is so easy to forget. Since that meeting I’ve often seen the gentleman, with his funny little car, parked next to the track that leads to the reservoir,  unloading all his tackle for a mornings fishing. Seeing him always serves as a gentle reminder to me that there is more to life than rushing from A-B, so much more.

‘The need of quiet, the need of air, the need of exercise,
and..the sight of sky and of things growing seem human needs, common to all men’
Octavia Hill
 Co-founder of The National Trust
 1895


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26 Responses to “A Gentle Reminder”

  1. Sue Says:

    Quite simply, thank you for this beautiful post. The image does indeed speak of a calm and quiet morning. Love the silhouetted fisherman and the ducks (geese) quietly swimming on the water in the perfect golden glow. Your quote eloquently sums everything up. How true!

  2. Ginnie Says:

    Your image is the perfect hand-in-glove fit for the Octavia Hill quote, UHDD. Your words are timely for any day when we get caught up in the tyranny of the urgent. One thing I have been amazed about here in Holland is how everyone tries to get outside to breathe the fresh air whenever possible, old and young alike. It’s in their blood. If Astrid doesn’t get outside, she becomes a crazy woman!

    And I think it’s pretty special that you found another Hill! Are you related? :)

  3. Marcie Says:

    Such a lovely reminder to stop..to breathe…to enjoy this moment. And what a beautiful image. Love the light..the silhouette..the quiet beauty. Thank-you for this!!!

  4. daffy Says:

    My husband and daughter are keen fisher persons and their very nature is to be quite lively and motivated. Seeing them fish together for the first time was a revelation! I was sure someone had body-snatched my pair and left the shells of two of the mildest, peaceful looking humans I had ever seen. I think this gentleman fisher had already found what my two found later.
    A timely & Gentle reminder indeed UHDD and a lovely peaceful image!
    Of course the quiet moments can be a little chaotic at times… especially when you land a big one! ;o)
    http://daffy.wordpress.com/2008/05/02/gone-fishin/

  5. margie Says:

    it is my birthday in a few weeks and to celebrate we are going ice fishing. soothes the soul it does.

  6. JoLyn Says:

    Nature therapy….

  7. pam Says:

    Lovely, lovely, lovely!

  8. eliza Says:

    how lovely, your image makes me so nostalgic for all things england! it goes very well with some elgar playing in the background :) . i’m trying to think what my african equivalent of ‘slowing down’ would be…sitting on the veranda looking at kili, yes that’s pretty good. i think all too often we forget to stop and slow down, take a deep breath. we should read your post at least once a week to remind ourselves :)

  9. Jakki Says:

    You so hit the nail on the head with ‘as a gentle reminder to me that there is more to life than rushing from A-B, so much more.’ So true…

  10. Michelle Shopped Says:

    mmmm, that reminds me of beatrix potter — didn’t she donate her grounds to the national trust?

    i remember reading anna quindlen’s commencement address to villanova a few times — it’s one of my favorite’s when she asks a homeless man why he chooses to remain homeless as she sits next to him on the ocean at coney island…”And he just stared out at the ocean and said, “Look at the view, young lady. Look at the view.”
    And every day, in some little way, I try to do what he said. I try to look at the view. And that’s the last thing I have to tell you today, words of wisdom from a man with not a dime in his pocket, no place to go, nowhere to be.

    Look at the view. You’ll never be disappointed.”

  11. Diane Schuller Says:

    what a beautiful photo. I’m so glad you took the initiative to talk to him — and look at the lovely message he was able to share with you. this I love.

  12. smithkaichjones Says:

    This is quite wonderful and much needed this morning. A still moment. Bless you.

  13. POBSB Says:

    stunning image! I do not understand fishing, i am to restless for it

  14. Kath Says:

    I too don’t understand fishing, but I’ve never really done it. My sister has it on a list of things for me to do. She will have to take me, but not ice fishing! This is a beautiful reminder. Thank you!

  15. Kath Says:

    I’m like you POBSB, I too don’t understand fishing, but I’ve never really done it. My sister has it on a list of things for me to do. She will have to take me, but not ice fishing! This is a beautiful reminder. Thank you!

  16. uphilldowndale Says:

    Standing on ice! A frightening scenario as far as I’m concerned, mind, I’m no better with pontoons, dock sides, canal locks and quays, they all make me anxious, they have done since I was a child.
    Thank you all for your kind words today, glad you’ve enjoyed the post.

  17. Robin Laws Says:

    oh gosh! i love his “funny little car” the Reliant Robin! made me smile it did :) i know this feeling of peace and tranquility you speak of and i know it can be found in the world of nature quite easily… it is hard to understand why i have to be reminded and prompted to go and find it. so simple. so obvious. thank you for the image and your thoughts today :)

  18. Puna Says:

    Now I understand why my husband and kids love fishing so much. Thank you UDD for today’s reminder. I will take it with me.

  19. Gerry Says:

    The things I learn reading your posts. Reliant Robin! I like it.

  20. Farmergal Says:

    Dropping that line into the water and waiting for the great “What If” is what gave my father his greatest delight. “To fish, perchance to dream.” Farmergal

  21. Flighty Says:

    The image perfectly illustrates one of life’s simple pleasures, although it’s not one that I’ve ever tried!
    I love the quote that you end the post with, and with which I agree wholeheartedly! xx

  22. Toni Says:

    A very good reminder indeed, Uhdd. So important to take time out to just be – be in the moment, be thankful, be aware, be still, be quiet, just be.

  23. AnneDroid Says:

    Fab picture, and post. I can easily see the appeal of fishing up to the point where you catch a fish – I love the tranquillity of it and so on. But if I actually caught a fish I’d panic!

  24. CherryPie Says:

    Very peaceful. We could all do with that reminder that we need to to slow down and chill out from time to time :-)

  25. Yvonne Says:

    Beautiful picture! Love the tranquility! Thank you for sharing.

  26. mrs K Says:

    This on my fridge door.

    Leisure

    W.H. Davies

    What is this life if, full of care,
    We have no time to stand and stare?
    No time to stand beneath the boughs,
    And stare as long as sheep and cows.
    No time to see, when woods we pass,
    Where squirrels hide their nuts in grass.
    No time to see, in broad daylight,
    Streams full of stars, like skies at night.
    No time to turn at Beauty’s glance,
    And watch her feet, how they can dance.
    No time to wait till her mouth can
    Enrich that smile her eyes began.
    A poor life this if, full of care,
    We have no time to stand and stare.

    This is my first visit and I enjoyed it – will be back.

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